Dating slender women
I tend to be more about the personality than the physical.BUT - I despise the fact that he sabotages every diet attempt I make and ignores his health, as doing so is essentially a way of saying he doesn't care what happens to me when he dies. For turnabout, the answer is yes - women will still be attracted to you if you have a good personality, nice manners, decent hygiene, etc.And I find my self constantly attracted to bigger guys. In fact the greatest love of my life was only 6'2" and 325 pounds and everyday I saw him I just became more and more attracted to him. If he is confident with who he is and makes me feel good that's the best!He did however have very wide shoulders and a fine looking butt lol! Due to professional circumstances he had to move away.Having said that, I really like guys to have a bit of meat of them (not fat) but I don't like really skinny either. They could be the greatest friend ever, but I wouldn't date him.I know that I'm not in the greatest shape either, but I'm working on it.
He has dropped weight to the point that he is really skinny. I hate to say it, but I don't find him all that attractive now.
(he's 6'4") We're both working hard to lose weight though and I'm happy that my healthy eating habits are rubbing off on him and his healthy exercise habits are rubbing off on me. Everyone seems to have a different opinion, I always feel more comfortable with a man who is much bigger than I am.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My hubby was SO skinny when we first started dating. He has gained some weight but is still super fit and trim. However, I like a man who is broad across the shoulders, and this can really only be achieved by weightlifting. A really muscular guy I like OK, but a muscular guy with some fat, so I can't see all the weird muscle lines is what I like most. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM If a man is obviously overweight as opposed to being bigger because of muscle, then they are a definite turn off.
But since then I found myself drawn even more so to bigger man. Saturday, October 21, 2006, AM LOL - I've thought of this myself. However, I've been on a "lifestyle change" for about five years now and recently when I find myself attracted to a guy's personality, then I notice he's fat-in-the-belly, I try to shut the attraction off.
I definitely am attracted to a bigger man - but it has to be a certain kind of fat (and they have to be tall, too). I've come too far to enter in a relationship where the guy obviously is eating too much/drinking too much/ not exercising enough.