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Are you a take-charge firstborn—or the attention-hungry baby of the family?
Where you fall in your family's birth-order hierarchy helps shape your personality and plays a significant role in your relationship.
Salmon, if the only has had little experience with the relatively immature, attention-seeking behavior of the baby of the family.
Perhaps no surprise, middles and onlies make a good match, with the middle child accustomed to the needy side as well as the possibly bossy side, of his or her "only" love.
That's because middles morph into the styles of the other types, depending on the dynamics of their particular family, says Dr. A middle child with a much younger sib may act more like a lastborn (and the opposite situation may make the middle more like a firstborn).
Relationship Tip: Try to suss out whether you have controlling tendencies (which you should keep in check so you don't overwhelm your younger-sib spouse) or if you both are acting like "babies."Youngest with Youngest These two can have a lot of fun—a pair of carefree, risk-taking lovers nearly always do.
Says Cane, "Firstborns like to be in control." As with all birth-order positions, gender plays a role, too.
In the case of firsts, oldest sons tend to be take-charge types, leaders.
Remember, such variables as gender and age spacing play a role in how close your personality hews to the birth-order line, says Dr. A middle child with close-in-age older and younger siblings is more "middle-ish" than one whose younger or older sibs are years apart.Relationship Tip: Try to figure out which of you is best at certain tasks (such as handling money or making decisions about the children), and then own up to that responsibility, rather than assuming the other will take care of it.Onlies with Anyone Unlike the other birth-order positions, only children haven't been studied as much, says Dr. "Most people assume an only child will resemble a firstborn in relationships," since they are, after all, first, but that doesn't take into account the fact that an only never had an advisory (or bossy! An only with a firstborn can be a good match if the only child acts less classically "firstborn." And an only with the lastborn can present issues, says Dr.But the classic conundrum here is that no one wants to be in charge."You may find that neither of you wants to handle the finances or make other important decisions," says Dr. Two last-born parents could be in a tough position: Both may prefer to be the kids' friend, not the heavy hand when it comes to discipline, which puts a strain on a marriage.